agonized
Word family
Synonym discussion
Sense: adjective/1
Agonized describes pain or distress that is so strong it shows in someone's face, voice, or body. Pained is milder and often refers to a brief look of hurt, sympathy, or disappointment. Distressed is broader: a person can be distressed by worry or shock without seeming close to unbearable pain. Anguished is more formal and usually points to deep emotional suffering. Tormented is stronger and often suggests pain that keeps returning over time. Agonizing is different because it usually describes the thing that causes the suffering, not the person who feels it. You might hear an agonized cry after a burn, but call the long wait for test results agonizing.
Etymology
Agonized comes from the verb agonize, which was formed from agony. Agony entered English through French and Latin from Greek agonia, a word that first referred to a struggle or contest and later to severe mental or physical suffering. The -ed form developed as an adjective for a person or expression that shows this intense pain or distress.