hate mail
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Sense: noun/1
Hate mail refers to hostile messages sent directly to a person by post or electronically. It is personal and targeted — someone has chosen to attack you, not just shout into a crowd. The term 'abusive messages' is broader: it covers cruel communication in any form, including insults shouted in a pub or scrawled on a wall, not just messages delivered to your inbox or letterbox. 'Poison-pen letters' is an old-fashioned, specifically postal term that carries a whiff of vintage crime fiction — it refers to anonymous handwritten letters intended to wound, and using it today for an angry email sounds dated. 'Online harassment' is the digital-age umbrella: it includes hate mail sent through social media or email, but also doxxing, impersonation, and coordinated pile-ons, making it much wider in scope. If the message arrives in your mailbox or inbox and its purpose is to hurt or threaten you, it is hate mail.
Common collocations
Nouns
- piece of hate mail
Phrases
- send hate mail
- receive hate mail
- anonymous hate mail
- flooded with hate mail
Etymology
The word 'hate' comes from Old English hatian ('to hate'), while 'mail' traces back to Old French male ('bag' or 'pouch'), which later came to mean the postal system. The compound 'hate mail' appeared in the early twentieth century as postal communication became widespread and people could send hostile letters to strangers more easily.