ingratiation
ingratiation — noun
1. the process of trying to make yourself liked by someone, often by praising them
the process of trying to make yourself liked by someone, often by praising them or doing things you think will please them, sometimes in a way that does not feel sincere
Lara's constant ingratiation made her coworkers wonder if her kindness was genuine.
adjective + ingratiation: constant / obvious / blatant
Nikhil warned the junior staff that obvious ingratiation would embarrass everyone, not impress the manager.
The candidate's clumsy ingratiation with the interviewers made a worse impression than honest answers.
After years of patient ingratiation, the assistant had earned the director's trust — and a promotion.
Salma saw through the consultant's ingratiation and said flattery could not replace data.
- flattery
focuses on verbal praise; less broad than ingratiation, which can include actions
- sycophancy
stronger negative judgement; suggests extreme, shameless fawning
- currying favor
idiomatic phrase; slightly informal, same meaning
- brown-nosing
informal and derogatory; implies obvious, crude attempts
文法句型
ingratiation + with + [person/group]
act/process of ingratiation
用法筆記
Frequently carries a negative or skeptical tone — the person described as engaging in ingratiation is often seen as insincere or self-serving. Uncountable; do not use with 'a' or 'an'.
常見錯誤
2. a specific remark, action, or gesture meant to make someone like you or think we
a specific remark, action, or gesture meant to make someone like you or think well of you
Mei offered to help with the late report, a small ingratiation the leader noticed.
countable: a [adjective] ingratiation
Sirin's compliment about the manager's speech was a transparent ingratiation that fooled no one.
A first-day gift of cookies can seem like a harmless ingratiation, not a real welcome.
The student's ingratiation — offering to carry the professor's books — felt awkward and unnecessary.
Nikhil chuckled at the waiter's cheerful ingratiation, knowing tips were expected for that service.
- flattering remark
more specific to words; ingratiation can be non-verbal
- sweet talk
informal, focuses on verbal persuasion
- favor
neutral — a favor may be sincere; an ingratiation is calculated
文法句型
a/some + ingratiation
an ingratiation
用法筆記
Countable — use with 'a', 'an', or 'some'. Refers to ONE specific action or remark, not the ongoing process. Distinguish from sense 1: sense 1 describes a general pattern of behavior, while sense 2 points to a single instance.