lenient
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Synonym discussion
Sense: adjective/1
Lenient, forgiving, tolerant, indulgent, and soft all describe a relaxed approach to rules or standards, but differ in nuance. Lenient focuses on not punishing as severely as expected — a judge or parent who gives lighter consequences than usual. Forgiving places emphasis on willingly letting go of past mistakes; it is more personal and relational. Tolerant means accepting behaviours, beliefs, or opinions that differ from one's own — it is broader than lenient and not tied to punishment. Indulgent suggests giving in to someone's wishes or desires, sometimes to excess. Soft is informal and can imply weakness rather than generosity. For example: 'The teacher was lenient about the late homework and accepted it without penalty.' But: 'She was forgiving of her friend's mistake and chose not to mention it again.'
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Etymology
Lenient comes from the Latin verb lenire, meaning 'to soften' or 'to soothe', which is built from lenis, meaning 'soft, mild, gentle'. The adjective entered English in the mid-1600s and originally described something that soothes or relieves. By the 1700s it had developed the modern sense of being merciful or not strict in judgment or punishment.