aggravating
Word family
- aggravateverbB1
- aggravationnounB2
- aggravatinglyadverbC1
- aggravatedadjectiveB2
Synonym discussion
Sense: adjective/1
All four words describe something that causes mild anger or displeasure, but they differ in intensity and nuance. Annoying is the mildest and most general word — it covers anything that bothers you, from a mosquito's buzz to a long line at the supermarket. Irritating is slightly stronger and often describes a physical sensation or a repeated action that grates on your nerves, like a scratchy collar or a dripping tap. Aggravating goes further still: it suggests irritation that builds up over time, often because someone is deliberately or persistently doing something unpleasant. Exasperating is the strongest of the four, carrying a sense of being pushed to the limit of your patience. For example, a colleague who hums all day is aggravating; one who ignores every polite request to stop becomes exasperating.
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Etymology
Derived from the Latin verb aggravare, meaning 'to make heavier' or 'to burden', which is formed from ad- ('to, towards') and gravis ('heavy'). The word entered English through French in the 15th–16th centuries. The two modern senses developed along different paths: the legal sense of 'making a crime more serious' appeared first, followed by the more general sense of 'annoying' in the 17th century.