asshole
Word family
- assholerynoun
- arseholenoun
Synonym discussion
Sense: noun/1
All five words label a person you dislike, but the register and target differ sharply. 'Idiot' is the mildest and is mostly about stupidity, not character — you can call a friend an idiot affectionately. 'Jerk' is informal but not taboo; it focuses on rude or selfish behavior and is safe in most casual conversation. 'Asshole' is vulgar and much harsher: it accuses someone of being deliberately mean or hurtful, not just clumsy. 'Prick' is also vulgar and similar in strength, but adds a flavor of arrogance, especially in British English. 'Bastard' is vulgar too, and often suggests cruelty or unfair treatment ('the bastard fired her on her birthday'). Compare: 'You idiot, you locked the keys in the car' (light), 'What a jerk' (everyday), 'He's a complete asshole to the waiters' (strong, taboo).
Common collocations
Nouns
- asshole behavior
- asshole move
- asshole boss
- asshole neighbor
Adverbs
Phrases
- be an asshole
- act like an asshole
- such an asshole
- some asshole
- feel like an asshole
Prepositions
- to (someone)
- about (something)
Etymology
Formed in English by joining 'arse' or 'ass' (the buttocks) with 'hole'. The literal body-part meaning came first, recorded from around the 14th century in older spellings such as 'arce-hoole'. The insulting use for a person, calling them as worthless or contemptible as that body part, became common in American English during the 20th century, especially in soldier slang during and after World War II. The 'ass' spelling is American; British and Australian English keep 'arsehole'.