commiseration
/kəˌmɪzəˈreɪʃn/ (bre, ipa) · /kəˌmɪzəˈreɪʃn/ (ame, ipa) · /kə-ˌmi-zə-ˈrā-shən/ (ame, mw)
commiseration — noun
1. a feeling of sadness shown to someone who is upset or unlucky, to let them know
a feeling of sadness shown to someone who is upset or unlucky, to let them know you understand and share their disappointment
Reema sent a card full of commiseration after Gabriel lost his pet rabbit.
commiseration after [bad event]
The neighbours stopped by with quiet commiseration when the Tanaka family's house was flooded.
uncountable, abstract noun usage
Layla offered her commiseration to the children left off the choir list.
There was little real commiseration in the manager's polite email about the missing parcel.
Élise listened to her grandmother's stories with deep commiseration about losing so many old friends.
- sympathy
much more common; everyday word for the same feeling
- compassion
wider — includes a wish to help, not only to share the sadness
- pity
can sound condescending; commiseration treats the person as an equal
- indifference
showing no feeling at all about another's bad luck
文法句型
commiseration for [person/situation]
commiserations on [event]
用法筆記
Often uncountable when describing the inner feeling. Distinguish from sense 2: this sense names the quiet, private feeling of sympathy; sense 2 covers the spoken or written words used to express it (often plural 'commiserations').
常見錯誤
2. spoken or written words said to someone after they have lost a game, missed a ch
spoken or written words said to someone after they have lost a game, missed a chance, or had bad luck, especially to be polite
After the final whistle, Christopher walked over to offer his commiserations to the losing team.
plural 'commiserations' after a sports loss
Minh sent a short message of commiserations when Jisoo failed her driving test again.
message / note of commiserations
Commiserations on missing the promotion, Rafael — your work this year was still excellent.
Nala accepted everyone's commiserations with a brave smile after her painting lost the prize.
The host's polite commiserations to the runner-up were warmer than her congratulations to the winner.
- condolences
reserved for a death; commiserations cover smaller losses too
- sympathies
broader; works for both deaths and smaller setbacks
- congratulations
the direct opposite — said after winning or success
文法句型
commiserations on [losing/failing]
offer / send / accept commiserations
用法筆記
Almost always plural ('commiserations') when used as a polite spoken or written formula, parallel to 'congratulations'. Distinguish from sense 1 (the inner feeling): this sense is the words you say to perform that feeling, especially after a competition or near-miss.