counselling

IPA/ˈkaʊnsəlɪŋ/
IPA/ˈkaʊnsəlɪŋ/

counselling — noun

1. a service in which a trained person listens carefully to someone's personal or e

1.nounB1
Definition

a service in which a trained person listens carefully to someone's personal or emotional difficulties and helps them find practical ways to cope or make changes

Example

After losing his job, Hiro went to counselling to help him deal with the stress.

collocation: go to counselling

The school offers free counselling for students who are worried about their exams.

collocation: offer free counselling for + group

Common collocations
  • receive counselling
  • offer counselling
  • provide counselling
  • seek counselling
  • undergo counselling
  • attend counselling
  • marriage counselling
  • grief counselling
  • career counselling
  • debt counselling
  • pastoral counselling
  • one-to-one counselling
  • group counselling
Synonyms
  • therapy

    broader term that includes medical treatment; counselling is typically shorter-term and talk-based

  • guidance

    focuses on practical direction rather than emotional exploration

  • coaching

    goal- and performance-oriented, less concerned with emotional healing

Grammar Patterns

go to / attend / receive / seek counselling

counselling about [problem]

counselling for [person or condition]

Usage Note

Counselling is an uncountable noun, so it is not used with 'a' or 'an' and has no plural form. To refer to one individual meeting, use 'a counselling session'.

Common Mistakes

I had a counselling yesterday.
I had a counselling session yesterday.
counselling is uncountable and cannot follow 'a'.
He gave me a good counselling.
He gave me good counselling.
counselling does not take an indefinite article.

Word family

Synonym discussion

Sense: noun/1

Counselling, therapy, guidance, coaching, and advice all involve helping someone, but they differ in depth and format. Counselling is a structured, talk-based process where a trained professional listens and helps you work through emotional or personal difficulties — it is usually short- to medium-term. Therapy (especially psychotherapy) goes deeper, often addressing long-standing mental health conditions through clinical methods. Guidance is broader and less formal: a teacher or mentor points you in the right direction based on their experience. Coaching is future- and performance-focused; a coach helps you set and reach specific goals (career, sport, life skills) rather than exploring past emotions. Advice is simply someone's opinion on what you should do — it requires no training and is normally a one-off statement. For example, you might visit a counsellor after a bereavement, attend therapy for clinical depression, ask a teacher for guidance on which university to apply to, hire a career coach to improve your interview skills, and ask a friend for advice on which phone to buy.

counselling ↗therapy ↗guidance ↗coaching ↗advice ↗

Common collocations

Nouns

Phrases

  • go to counselling
  • seek counselling
  • receive counselling
  • offer counselling

Prepositions

Etymology

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Counselling comes from the verb 'counsel', which entered English through Old French 'cunseillier', from Latin 'consiliari' meaning 'to take counsel, consult'. The Latin root 'consilium' means 'advice, deliberation, plan'. The '-ing' suffix turned the verb into a noun describing the activity itself. The modern sense of counselling as a professional helping service became widespread in the 20th century alongside the growth of psychology and social work.