frustrate
Word family
- frustratedadjectiveB1
- frustratingadjectiveB1
- frustrationnounB2
Synonym discussion
Sense: verb/1
All four describe negative reactions to a situation, but the cause and the strength of feeling differ. 'Annoy' is the lightest — a short, surface-level irritation that usually fades quickly: noisy neighbours annoy you for an evening. 'Frustrate' is stronger and involves blocked effort: you have been trying to reach a goal and cannot, so you feel both angry and helpless. 'Exasperate' adds a sense of having reached the very end of one's patience after repeated trouble; it has a more formal, almost dramatic flavour, often used about people's behaviour. 'Discourage' shifts the focus from anger to loss of hope: a frustrated learner is annoyed at obstacles; a discouraged learner is ready to give up. Example contrast: a queue-jumper annoys you, a broken printer before a deadline frustrates you, and a child who keeps interrupting exasperates a tired teacher.
Common collocations
Etymology
From Latin 'frustratus', the past participle of 'frustrari' meaning 'to deceive or disappoint', built on 'frustra' meaning 'in vain'. The word entered English in the fifteenth century, first describing actions that came to nothing, and later widening to the modern emotional sense of someone feeling stuck or upset when their efforts fail.
First known use
15th century
15th century, in the meaning defined at sense 1a Adjective