had
Word family
Synonym discussion
Sense: adjective/1
All four words describe being treated dishonestly, but they differ in scope and formality. 'Cheated' is the broadest and most neutral term — it covers any dishonest act, from a card game to a business deal. 'Ripped off' is informal and strongly tied to money: you are ripped off when you pay too much for something of poor quality. 'Taken advantage of' is softer and can apply to non-financial situations, such as someone exploiting your trust or kindness. 'Swindled' is the most formal and dramatic, implying a carefully planned fraud with significant losses. For example: a tourist who pays NT$500 for a NT$100 scarf has been ripped off; an investor who loses her savings to a fake company has been swindled.
Common collocations
Phrases
- had it
- be had
- been had
Etymology
'Had' is the past tense and past participle of 'have'. It comes from Old English 'hæfde', the past form of 'habban' (meaning to own or hold), which traces back to the Proto-Germanic root '*habjan' and further to the Proto-Indo-European root '*keh₂p-' meaning 'to grasp or seize'.