infantility
Word family
Synonym discussion
Sense: noun/1
All three words describe a lack of grown-up behaviour, but they differ in strength and context. 'Childishness' is the most common and neutral term — it simply describes behaviour unsuitable for an adult's age. 'Infantility' is stronger and more formal, suggesting behaviour so childlike that it seems inappropriate or embarrassing in an adult. 'Immaturity' is broader: it can refer to emotional, social, or intellectual underdevelopment without the specific image of a young child. 'Puerility' is the rarest of the four; it emphasises silliness or triviality. For example, refusing to eat a meal because it was not cooked your way would be described as childishness or infantility, but not normally as immaturity (which would refer to a wider pattern), and not as puerility (which implies trivial foolishness rather than a childish tantrum).
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Etymology
From the adjective 'infantile' (childish) plus the noun-forming suffix '-ity'. 'Infantile' traces back through French to Latin 'infantilis' (pertaining to an infant), which comes from 'infans' — literally 'not speaking', i.e. a very young child. The word carries a critical tone that developed in the 19th century as psychology began using 'infantile' to describe behaviour that was regressively childlike.