valentine
Word family
- Valentine's DaynounA2
Synonym discussion
Sense: noun/1
'Valentine' specifically refers to someone you choose or express affection for on Valentine's Day (14 February), while 'sweetheart' is a more general, old-fashioned term of endearment for someone you love. 'Boyfriend' or 'girlfriend' describes a current, ongoing romantic relationship and is far more common in everyday conversation. 'Lover' implies a more intimate, often physical relationship and can sound dramatic or formal. Use 'valentine' when the context is specifically tied to Valentine's Day traditions. For example: 'She asked him to be her valentine' vs. 'He is her boyfriend' vs. 'They are longtime sweethearts.'
Common collocations
Nouns
- Valentine's Day
Phrases
- on Valentine's Day
- on February fourteenth
Etymology
The word comes from Saint Valentine, a third-century Roman priest who secretly performed marriages for soldiers despite a ban by Emperor Claudius II. The custom of sending love messages on 14 February began during the Middle Ages. By the 1400s, 'valentine' was already used to mean both the sweetheart chosen on that day and the card sent to them.