bruising
Word family
Synonym discussion
Sense: adjective/2
For adjective/2, bruising describes something so hard or forceful that it leaves a strong effect on the body, energy, or confidence. Grueling is often used for long physical effort or exhausting work. Punishing usually suggests repeated strain or very severe conditions, such as a punishing schedule. Taxing focuses on the effort something demands from the mind or body. Harsh is wider: it can describe weather, rules, words, or treatment, but it does not always imply tiredness. A bruising campaign can be both harsh and punishing, while a bruising climb is closer to grueling. Think: a bruising debate, a punishing week, a taxing exam, a harsh remark.
Etymology
Bruising is built from bruise and the ending -ing. Bruise came into English through French from a verb meaning to break or crush, which fits the idea of marks left by a blow and, later, experiences that leave a strong emotional or physical effect.