immodesty
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These words all suggest an exaggerated view of yourself, but they point in different directions. 'Immodesty' focuses on the lack of restraint that other people notice when someone praises their own ability or success too openly. 'Vanity' often centres on wanting admiration, especially for appearance or personal image. 'Conceit' is stronger and more inward: it suggests a settled belief that you are special or superior. 'Arrogance' is harsher still because it adds contempt for other people, not just admiration for yourself. A singer who keeps praising her own performance may show immodesty, a person who checks every mirror may show vanity, a student who dismisses correction may show conceit, and a manager who talks down to the team shows arrogance.
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Etymology
English formed this noun from 'immodest' plus the ending '-y'. Behind both words is Latin 'modestus', meaning restrained or keeping within proper limits, with the negative prefix 'in-' changing to 'im-' before 'm'. The word first referred to a lack of restraint in behaviour or speech and later also to dress or display judged too revealing.