matchmaker
Word family
- matchmakingnounB2
- matchnounA1
- matchverbA2
Synonym discussion
Sense: noun/1
A matchmaker actively brings two people together with the goal of a romantic relationship. A go-between is more general — this person passes messages or negotiates between two parties, not necessarily for romance. Cupid is a playful, informal term drawn from Roman mythology, often used when someone playfully sets up friends ("stop playing cupid!"). Marriage broker is more formal and implies a paid arrangement, typically in contexts where families negotiate marriage terms. In everyday English, matchmaker is the most neutral and widely understood term for someone who introduces potential partners.
Common collocations
Phrases
- play matchmaker
- act as a matchmaker
Prepositions
- matchmaker for
- matchmaker between
Etymology
Combines 'match' (from Old English 'gemæcca', meaning a companion or one of a pair) and 'maker' (someone who makes). The word has been used since the 1500s to describe a person who tries to make a pair of people into a romantic couple.