misty-eyed
Word family
Synonym discussion
Sense: adjective/1
All four describe a person whose feelings are showing through their eyes or throat, but the picture each one paints is slightly different. Misty-eyed and teary-eyed both name the moment when the eyes turn wet and shiny but the tears have not yet rolled down — misty-eyed leans warm and nostalgic (pride, fond memories, a touching ceremony), while teary-eyed is the everyday near-synonym and works for happy or sad moments equally. Tearful goes one step further: the tears are visible or already falling, and the mood leans sadder — a tearful goodbye, a tearful confession. Choked up shifts the focus to the throat tightening so that the person can barely speak; tears may or may not appear. So: when a grandmother watches her grandchild graduate and her eyes shine, she is misty-eyed; if her tears spill over during the speech, she is tearful; if she cannot finish her own toast, she is choked up.
Common collocations
Adverbs
- a little misty-eyed
- noticeably misty-eyed
- suddenly misty-eyed
Phrases
- go misty-eyed
- get misty-eyed
- become misty-eyed
- grow misty-eyed
Prepositions
- misty-eyed at [memory/moment]
- misty-eyed over [keepsake/loss]
- misty-eyed with [pride/joy]
Etymology
A transparent compound formed from misty (covered or blurred as if by mist) and eyed (having eyes of a stated kind). Mist comes from Old English mist, meaning a fine cloud of water droplets that softens what you see. Applied to eyes, the metaphor pictures vision blurred by a thin film of unshed tears — the same softening effect mist has on a landscape. The compound has been in regular English use since the late 1800s.