desolate
Word family
- desolationnounC1
- desolatelyadverbC1
- desolatingadjectiveC1
Synonym discussion
Sense: adjective/2
All four words describe sadness, but they differ in cause and intensity. 'Desolate' is the strongest — it describes the deep, crushing loneliness that follows a major loss, such as the death of a loved one. 'Forlorn' adds a sense of being pitiful and hopeless, often visible in a person's appearance: a forlorn figure standing alone in the rain. 'Bereft' specifically means having lost something essential: 'bereft of hope' means all hope is gone. 'Despondent' is more about losing confidence and giving up: failing several job interviews can leave someone despondent. 'Dejected' is the mildest of the group — a temporary low mood after a small disappointment, like being turned down for a date. Use 'desolate' for profound, lasting grief; use 'dejected' for passing sadness.
Common collocations
Etymology
From Latin 'dēsōlātus', meaning 'left alone, abandoned'. It is made up of 'dē-' (completely) and 'sōlus' (alone). The word entered Middle English in the 1300s, first describing places that had been emptied of people, and later came to describe the feeling of being emotionally alone.