ex-directory
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Sense: adjective/1
Ex-directory, unlisted, private, and confidential all involve restricting access to information, but they differ in scope. Ex-directory (British) and unlisted (American) are the narrowest: they mean a phone number withheld from the public directory at the subscriber's request. Private is much broader — it applies to anything not meant for public knowledge, from conversations to meetings to personal thoughts. Confidential goes further still, implying a formal obligation of secrecy, typically in professional or legal contexts: a doctor keeps patient records confidential, but you would not call your home number 'confidential' unless you were a spy. If you tell a friend 'my number is private,' they might think you mean you do not share it casually; if you say 'my number is ex-directory,' they know it cannot be found through directory enquiries.
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Etymology
Formed from the prefix ex- (meaning 'out of' or 'outside') and directory (originally a book listing names and addresses, later specifically a telephone directory). The term emerged in Britain in the mid-20th century as telephone companies began offering subscribers the option to keep their numbers out of the public phone book.
First known use
1936
1936, in the meaning defined above