mellowed
Word family
Synonym discussion
Sense: verb/2
All four describe a person becoming less intense, but they differ in register and scope. 'Mellowed' implies a lasting, often gradual change in character — someone who was once tense or angry becomes genuinely gentler over time. 'Calmed down' is more informal and usually describes a temporary reduction of immediate anger or excitement, as after an argument. 'Relaxed' focuses on physical or mental tension leaving the body, not necessarily a change in personality. 'Cooled off' is informal and suggests that anger or strong emotion has subsided, often after a pause. For example: 'After his retirement, Hassan mellowed and became much more patient with people.' But: 'Adisa calmed down after taking a few deep breaths.' Use 'mellow' for deep, lasting personality shifts; the other words work for shorter-term mood changes.
Common collocations
Phrases
- with age
- over time
- over the years
Etymology
From 'mellow' (Middle English 'melwe', meaning soft, ripe, or tender) combined with the past participle suffix '-ed'. 'Mellow' itself likely comes from Old English 'mearu' (tender, soft), with possible influence from Old English 'melu' (meal, grain that has been ground soft). The sense of a person becoming relaxed developed in the 1700s, extended from the earlier use describing ripe fruit or aged wine.
First known use
15th century
15th century, in the meaning defined at sense 1a Verb